Archive for September, 2009

The Tapestry Adoption Assistance Fund

Posted on September 28, 2009 by The Tapestry Team1 Comment

aimeewebWe want to take a moment to tell you a little bit about the Tapestry Adoption Assistance Fund and a recent success story. The fund provides matching grants and/or interest-free covenant loans to families on the adoption journey who find themselves in need of financial assistance.

Because of our partnership with LifeSong for Orphans, every dollar given to the fund has gone directly toward allowing a child to know the love and nurture of a forever family – a family that not only loves them but also loves the Lord.

While our adoption assistance fund is not large (in terms of the balance we have on hand), it has been very active.  After all, our goal is not to have a large fund balance – in that sense we are perfectly satisfied to live on the edge of $0.  Instead, our goal is to serve an ever growing number of Christian families who are well educated, well supported and able to move forward confidently to meet the financial challenges as they pursue God’s call in their life to welcome a child into their hearts and lives through the miracle of adoption.

Most recently, the Tapestry Adoption Assistance Fund made it possible for Rachel and Scott Whitmire to travel to India to adopt a two year old girl named Aimee.  When Rachel and Scott approached us we were deeply moved by their story.  Aimee has Down Syndrome and the Whitmires’ adoption process had been expedited in order to allow Aimee to join her family and begin receiving the care she needed as soon as possible.  In fact, everything was in place for the Whitmires to travel to India to bring Aimee home, except for one important thing – they did not have the financial resources to do so.

Presented with the opportunity to help Aimee get the care, attention and love that she needed; given the chance to allow Aimee to fall asleep in the arms of a mother, rather than spend another night in an orphanage, the decision was simple. With financial assistance from the Tapestry Fund Rachel and Scott Whitmire brought Aimee home from India on July 22, 2009.  Here are a few words Rachel recently wrote:

“Meeting Aimee for the first time was simply amazing.  To finally meet that little person after loving her ‘from afar’ for so long – wow, there are just no words!  She was very ‘closed off’ when I first met her but within a few days she realized that if she made sounds I would talk back to her, that if she cried I would pick her up and that if she came near to me I would snuggle and play with her.  It has been great to watch her little personality unfold. She is just the sweetest little thing.

She’s tiny – only 17 pounds at 26 months old.  She’s very much a baby but she’s catching up quickly.  She is amazingly determined and surprises us every day with how much she is learning to do.  When she came home she didn’t walk at all but now she’s taking 10 to 15 steps at a time.  She’s also saying several words in English and does lots of baby signs.  All of those things are huge for a child with Down Syndrome – especially since she had very little therapy in India.  Go Aimee! :)

She loves her brothers and has her daddy wrapped around her little finger.  I’ll admit I’m a bit smitten too. :)  She is just the perfect icing on the cake of our little family.

We are praising God for the miracle He performed in our lives by leading us to Aimee and providing a way for her to come home even though we couldn’t afford it.  He has done some amazing things to bring her home and is continuing to bless us by giving us the privilege of raising this sweet little girl.”

Because of generous support for the Tapestry Adoption Assistance Fund, Aimee and nine other children from the U.S., Ethiopia, Vietnam and India will go to sleep tonight as a member of a forever family, and with a mom and a dad who dearly love them and love Jesus.  In addition, the Tapestry Fund is currently helping four other families that are in the process of adopting a total of six other children.  Please pray with us that they will each be able to welcome their children home very soon.

As great as these stories are, they are only the beginning – the beginning of how God will continue to bless the lives of these children and their families, to make a difference and to bring glory to His name.

Filed Under: Resources, Stories

Adopting the Older Child

Posted on September 23, 2009 by The Tapestry TeamNo Comments

In light of the fact that more and more families are considering and pursuing older child adoptions, earlier this year Tapestry hosted an event entitled Adopting the Older Child.

Older child adoption comes with its own unique set of joys and challenges, and this Tapestry event explored both.  In addition, the event focused on helping parents and parents-to-be better understand what to expect, how to respond and where to turn for support and help when it comes to older child adoption. 

The event was led by Paula St. John, LCSW, from The Gladney Center for Adoption, and Darren and Cheryl Macdonald also shared their family’s experience. 

You can download the handout materials and the resource packet from this event.  You can also watch the video of this event:

Part 1 of Adopting the Older Child features Paula St. John discussing the unique challenges and rewards of adopting older children.

Part 2 of Adopting the Older Child features Darren and Cheryl Macdonald, who share their family’s experience of adopting an 11 year girl from Russia.

You can also view resources from other past Tapestry events in the Tapestry Events Archive.

Filed Under: Resources, Stories

Tapestry Book Club

Posted on September 22, 2009 by The Tapestry TeamNo Comments

I'm Chocolate, You're VanillaThe Tapestry Book Club is a great excuse for moms and moms-to-be to get together and talk about interesting adoption and foster care related topics as well as to make some wonderful connections with other women.

The girls are currently reading an excellent book entitled I’m Chocolate, You’re Vanilla by Marguerite Wright.  This book is considered by many parents as one of the best all around books on the topics of race and how children understand race at different ages/stages of development.  The book is used by many transracial adoptive and foster parents and is relevant to parents and children of all races.

The Tapestry Book Club will meet tonight at Irving Bible Church at 7 pm.  Regardless of whether you’ve read the book, if you’re interested in what is sure to be a lively and intriguing discussion you should make plans to join in.  The Tapestry Book Club meets every other month, so make plans now to join in on the discussion in November.  Check out the Tapestry website for more details.

Filed Under: News & Events, Resources

AdoptiveDads.org

Posted on September 21, 2009 by The Tapestry TeamNo Comments

AdoptiveDads.orgSeveral Tapestry dads regularly contribute their stories, thoughts and perspectives to AdoptiveDads.org.  As you might guess, this “essay blog” takes a look at various aspects of the adoption and foster journey from a father’s perspective.

Some of the posts at AdoptiveDads.org are light and funny, others are serious and some are even educational.  But collectively, these dads seek to offer a real yet hope-filled take on the amazing lifelong journeys of adoption and foster care.

Be sure to check out the latest post entitled Daddy, Why Am I Special?  You can also grab the RSS feed or sign-up to receive email updates when new articles are posted each week.

Filed Under: Resources, This & That

2009 Tapestry Conference Registration is Now Open!

Posted on September 14, 2009 by The Tapestry TeamNo Comments

We are very excited about the 2009 Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference.  This year’s conference includes a great line-up of highly relevant breakout sessions that will be led by some terrific presenters

Online registration is now open for the 2009 Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference.  Be sure to visit the Tapestry Conference website for full details about this year’s conference and to register online.  Space is limited so register soon.

We look forward to seeing you at the 2009 Tapestry Conference on Saturday, October 24!

Filed Under: News & Events

2009 Tapestry Conference Website is Live!

Posted on September 9, 2009 by The Tapestry TeamNo Comments

 Tapestry Conference Website

The 2009 Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference website is now live.  The conference will be held on Saturday, October 24, from 9 am to 3 pm at Irving Bible Church, and is free of charge.  That’s right – breakfast, snack, lunch, childcare, conference materials and more, all completely free.

This year’s conference will feature an array of terrific breakout sessions that are highly relevant for virtually everyone interested in or connected to adoption and foster care. 

Visit www.tapestryconference.org to find out all of the details about the 2009 Tapestry Conference.  Online registration begins on Monday, September 14.  Space is limited so be sure to register as soon as you can.

In the meantime, be sure to check out some of the great resources (including video and audio recordings) from our past Tapestry Conferences.

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Orphan Sunday 2009 – November 8

Posted on September 3, 2009 by The Tapestry TeamNo Comments

Our friends at the Christian Alliance for Orphans are inviting believers and churches across the country and around the world to take part in Orphan Sunday 2009 on November 8.

Orphan Sunday is an opportunity to invite the church and our community to respond to God’s call to care for the orphan. On this Sunday Christians will stand for the orphan through hundreds of events across America and beyond, all sharing a single goal: that God’s great love for the orphan will echo in our lives as well. Through sermons and small groups, concerts and prayer gatherings — each event will focus on rousing believers with God’s call to care for the orphan…and what we can do in response.

Visit www.orphansunday.org for more information and some great resources to help you and your church join the movement to live out God’s heart for the orphan.

Also, if you have questions or need help with your church’s plans for Orphan Sunday 2009, contact Michael Monroe at tapestry@irvingbible.org.  We’d be happy to help in any way we can.

Filed Under: For Churches