Posted on February 8, 2010 by The Tapestry Team
As I read the article, A heartbreaking request: Take My Child, from the Miami Herald, I was struck once again by the extent of the devastation and hopelessness that pervades Haiti.
The realities revealed in this article are both shocking and unimaginable. Scores of Haitian parents are convinced that they and their children have no hope. Let that sink in for a moment — or even longer. These parents are willing to go to extreme measures to provide for their children, yet the only hope they see for their children is to say goodbye and send them to the U.S.
As followers of Christ we, who live here in the land of plenty, have the opportunity and the privilege to take help and hope to Haiti. While adoption has been and will be the answer for some Haitian children, what Haiti needs most is for God’s people to not be stingy with our hope, but instead take it to Haiti. In response to the mother’s plea “take my child,” we must be ready with hands extended and hearts committed to reply instead, “take hold of this hope” — a hope and a Good News that is both “good” here and now and for eternity.
Each and every church can play some part; each and every family has a role — whether in Haiti or elsewhere. We ask that you join with us as we prayerfully consider how God would have us, our families and our churches ”take hope to Haiti.” To that end, let me encourage you to learn more about the Haiti Orphan Relief Team efforts, and consider how your church will be a part.
Posted on January 27, 2010 by The Tapestry Team
As the pictures from the devastation in Haiti continue to pour in, the reality of the long, slow road of recovery and rebuilding is becoming more apparent. But even in the midst of the tragedy, heartache and seeming hopelessness, God is clearly at work. Over the past days we have seen and heard inspiring stories of remarkable faith, hope and courage from Haiti. And the response from Christians across the U.S. – particularly toward the orphans and vulnerable children in Haiti – has been equally encouraging.
Understandably, the situation in Haiti has led many Christians to begin asking questions about international adoption, and specifically about adoption from Haiti. There have been countless news reports about the status and future of international adoptions from Haiti and, not surprisingly, no small amount of confusion has resulted.
In an effort to provide some reliable facts and some helpful next steps, we wanted to let you know what we have learned about the current adoption landscape in Haiti. In doing so we are only attempting to touch on the high points. As always, if you have questions or need more information please contact Tapestry at tapestry@irvingbible.org and we will be sure to follow up with you.
Some Basic Facts about International Adoption from Haiti
Prior to the earthquake there were (according to recent estimates) as many as 380,000 orphans in Haiti. Tragically, some have estimated that the number of orphans in Haiti may double or even triple as a result of the earthquake. Yet despite this staggering number of orphans only a little more than 300 Haitian children were adopted by U.S. families in 2009. In addition, the average time to complete an international adoption from Haiti pre-earthquake was close to three years.
We could write a book about why this disparity between the number of orphans and the number of international placements exists, whether it is defensible (or not), why the wait time is so long, why the tension between adoption and humanitarian organizations exists and so on. But the reality is that international adoption was not adequate to address the needs of the vast majority of Haiti’s orphans pre-earthquake, and that will continue to be the case for the foreseeable future. As a result, we must all focus on the crucial importance of continuing to pray, give, advocate and serve – not just for the immediate needs in Haiti (which are many and urgent) but for the long-term. Along those lines, let us encourage you to continue to pray about how God would have you, your family and your church be involved to serve the ‘fatherless’.
Adoptions in Process Pre-Earthquake
The U.S. and Haitian governments have determined to “expedite” many of the adoptions that were already in process prior to the earthquake. This is being done via a process known as “humanitarian parole” and it relates to two categories of children whose adoptions were already in process pre-earthquake: (1) children who had been legally confirmed as orphans eligible for intercountry adoption by the Haitian government and (2) children who had been identified by an adoption service provider or facilitator as eligible for intercountry adoption and were matched to prospective U.S. adoptive parents. Certainly this is terrific news for the children and families affected and we rejoice with them.
Adoptions Post-Earthquake
We can make this real simple – as of now no new international adoption processes are being started for children in Haiti. As we noted earlier, one of the best and most reliable places to go for information on all international adoption country programs (including Haiti) is the Joint Council on International Children’s Services (JCICS). The JCICS webpage for Haiti indicates very clearly that new adoptions from Haiti by U.S. citizens are “closed.” While there does seem to be some ongoing discussion in the U.S. about streamlining the international adoption process for Americans wanting to adopt from Haiti (and possibly other countries as well), there is no clear indication as to whether or when that will happen.
How You Can Respond
The fact that Haiti is currently closed for new adoptions should not discourage you from taking the next step and getting involved. There are many different ways to serve orphans in Haiti and around the world, and we would be happy to discuss your options with you – so don’t hesitate to contact us.
If God has opened your eyes to the needs of the ‘fatherless’ and is calling you to adopt – even if you feel called to adopt specifically from Haiti – there is still much that you can do. Many people think that beginning the adoption process means that they need to research information about agencies, gather the necessary financial resources, fill out applications and start waiting. Some people are even considering rushing out to obtain a generic home study.
These are all certainly ways you can get started, but they may not be the best ways. Let us encourage you to “get started” in a somewhat different fashion. By pouring yourself into the tangible steps listed below you will be “getting started” in a direction that will help you build a strong foundation for one day loving and serving a child in need – whether from Haiti, your own community or wherever God may lead you:
● Pray – To some it may sound almost cliché, but the first step (and a continual part) of any adoption journey for those who are followers of Christ must be to pray. No matter where your journey leads you please continue to pray.
● Examine – Your motivations and expectations matter when it comes to adoption, and yet many people spend far too little time examining themselves. Pray and talk throug this list of questions, and read this helpful article about the importance of continually examining your motivations and expectations.
● Prepare – Children who are impacted by adoption and foster care have histories that can have profound impacts in a multitude of ways. These “children from hard places,” which certainly includes all of the orphans in Haiti, will need parents who not only have huge hearts and a deep well of compassion, they need parents who are informed, equipped and committed to building trust and helping their child heal. There are some great resources available to help parents understand these challenges and how to meet them. Some of the best resources can be found at Empowered to Connect. For those who are new to adoption and need a good place to start learning about the different adoption paths and some of the characteristics and issues associated with each, check out Tapestry’s Adoption & Foster Care Resource Guide.
Tapestry is committed to helping and serving families called to adoption and foster care in any way that we can. As the situation in Haiti continues to develop we will be sure to provide periodic updates here on the Tapestry blog.
In the meantime, please let us know how we can best serve you as you prayerfully consider how God would have you respond.
Posted on January 19, 2010 by The Tapestry Team
Over the past several days we’ve heard from many people inquiring about how they can best help those whose lives have been devastated by the earthquake in Haiti. Many have also inquired about serving the most vulnerable victims of this disaster, the children, through adoption or temporary care. Here are a few important things to keep in mind as you and your family pray about how God would have you respond.
The most pressing needs in Haiti right now must be addressed by prayer and rapid, emergency relief efforts. As you continue to pray for those who have been impacted by this disaster as well as for those who are responding, please consider giving to the emergency relief efforts. Click here for a list of some of the many reputable Christian organizations that are responding to the crisis in Haiti to serve children. For those who are part of the Irving Bible Church community, you can stay informed about IBC’s response here.
Regarding the issue of adoption or temporary care for the orphans in Haiti, the U.S. government has already granted humanitarian parole for certain Haitian adoptions that were already in process. One of the best places for reliable information relating to Haitian adoptions (as well as international adoption in general) is the Joint Council on International Children’s Services.
If you are considering starting a new Haitian adoption process, we would encourage you to wait. While that may seem counter-intuitive in the face of such a crisis with so many children orphaned and in need, there is good reason for this approach. JCICS explains it well:
“Additionally, many U.S. families are seeking to initiate adoptions of newly orphaned Haitian children. While both airlifts and new adoptions are based on valid concerns and come from an obviously loving heart, neither option is considered viable by any credible child welfare organization. Bringing children into the U.S. either by airlift or new adoption during a time of national emergency can open the door for fraud, abuse and trafficking. Every effort must be made in a timely fashion to locate living parents and extended family members. Many children, who might appear to be orphaned, may in fact be only temporarily separated from their family. Our efforts must be to provide the families and children of Haiti with shelter, nutrition, water and safety. Once the situation in Haiti stabilizes and timely reunification has taken place, adoption may be an option for the children who remain outside of permanent parental care.” — Source: JCICS website posted on January 15, 2010
But that should not leave those of us wanting to respond to help orphans in Haiti either hopeless or idle. We can wait without standing still as we pray, advocate and give.
In the days to come, as the situation in Haiti quietly fades from the front page and the evening news, please remember to pray. Pray for the people and especially the children in Haiti. Pray for the church in Haiti and how God can use your church to respond to the people of Haiti. Pray about how God can best use you and your family to make His love known to the people of Haiti.
If you have any questions or would like to talk further about responding to the situation in Haiti or about Haitian adoptions, please contact Amy Monroe at tapestry@irvingbible.org.
As I read the article, A heartbreaking request: Take My Child, from the Miami Herald, I was struck once again by the extent of the devastation and hopelessness that pervades Haiti.
